Queer-eye for the straight woman

[mimitabby]

where I work sometimes I am revolted by the fact that all the guys are wearing shades of beige and tan. (there are some exceptions at my office, but they are VERY noticeable)
sometimes i will see 3 in a row wearing their tan khaki pants and their excruciatingly boring matching shirts, and I say Don't you guys have anything more colorful??? WHO PICKS THESE CLOTHES OUT????
and to a man; the response is: MY WIFE.
there are 3 guys in my office who dress themselves in COLORS; two are bachelors, one is 25 years old (and married).

My gay brother didn't have great taste in clothes... I guess he didn't fit the stereotype either.

[Wahine]

I have a brother who is 6'3" and very built, he is a total metrosexual and dressed me when we were teens. Great fashion sense and straight.

I have several close male friends... same.

My husband has great design and clothing sense and thinks nothing of wearing bright clothes. He sometimes gets mistaken for g@y. No he's not.

I have a very straight male friend who dresses badly in women's clothing.

I met a g@y man horticulturalist today with absolutely no fashion sense what so ever.

Only once in my life has anyone been able to pull a pair of jeans off of the rack for me and have them fit without even asking me my size. A g@y man.

I have a client that is a professional snowboarder that came into treatment with purple jeans and a bright yellow t-shirt. It really hurt my eyes. But it was colorful.

[silver]

he is a total metrosexual

When the phrase was first coined in the late 80's, it was "metromale". I prefer that...otherwise, it's like we've established one additional sexual orientation...

Oops....This is Mr. Silver (not Silver)typing on Silver's computer!!!

[silver]

sometimes i will see 3 in a row wearing their tan khaki pants and their excruciatingly boring matching shirts, and I say Don't you guys have anything more colorful??? WHO PICKS THESE CLOTHES OUT????

Once, in the office, my lavender shirt was referred to as "light in the loafers purple" and my pink one as "powder boy pink"...coming from three SVP's who reported to meI'm clearly a boss who creates WAY too comfortable of a work environment

[Trek420]

Once, in the office, my lavender shirt was referred to as "light in the loafers purple" and my pink one as "powder boy pink"...coming from three SVP's who reported to meI'm clearly a boss who creates WAY too comfortable of a work environment

OK, now I'm confused, and this is before the 2nd cuppa. So I'm talking to Mr. Silver logged in as Silver, right? 'cause if it's Silver uhm, nice suit and tie.

So you're a boss who tolerates barely juuuuuuuust this side of the line of the EEO policy ribbing of gays or appearances assumed to be gay?

So is this why all the black, blue and gray? Because "real men" don't wear color or only certain colors or the other boys on the playground will tease them and only when it's a bike jersey and then when the ride's over it's right back into uniform?

That's so sad

Speaking of ties, has anyone seen the Carlos Santana line of ties? They are wild. And the money raised goes to his Milagros Foundation (for kids charities).

[OakLeaf]

So you're a boss who tolerates barely juuuuuuuust this side of the line of the EEO policy ribbing of gays or appearances assumed to be gay?

He's in Indiana. Discrimination based on sexual orientation is perfectly legal.

Although I do have to say that in a world where universities have Queer Studies departments, it seems to me that that word at least has been thoroughly reclaimed, and a good thing too. Now if only we could do the same for the B word that this forum won't let me type.