If you are comfy on your soft tissues it's likely you are on the rami, which is exactly what the new saddles I saw are designed for. They are curved (top surface) to match the "ideal" rami angle for each sitbone width. (in their case, the sitbone width is only used as an indicator of rami angle)
The guy didn't have their widest new saddle for me to try, to see if it did match my rami angle, darn. (my rami are going to have a VERY shallow angle) It isn't in production yet.
There are an awful lot of important muscle attachments and nerves and blood vessels running around in the rami's neighborhood. If the seat top curve doesn't match the rami right, someone will be weightbearing on just a portion of the rami (not the whole thing, just a small contact point) and battering that point and yanking on the soft stuff. Or if it's completely off, they will be off the rami and into the tender goodies or even the pubic bone.
This weekend I rode a borrowed bike with a different brand women's saddle, which was way too narrow. I was definitely weightbearing on the rami, mostly on just one little spot. I'm a hurtin', and it was only a 10 mile ride. If someone tried one of the newer saddles and didn't know what it should feel like (comfy, like you are VG) I would worry about things like pudendal nerve entrapment and blood flow.
The guy was demo-ing with a female pelvis model and a sample of the 146mm saddle, and I was cringing at the thought of damage to those of us who don't match the statistics.
I was impressed that saddle designers are finally getting away from the oat-bran trendiness of over padded saddles and cut outs for women.
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