How do I tell a friend....

[Irulan]

MYOB - my perspective comes this -

accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can
and the wisdom to know the difference.

Most people spend a lot of time and energy worry about how to change other's behavior, when that is the one thing that is usually out of our control and that we cannot make a difference in. It's much more effective to focus on our own part of things, and not beat our head against a wall trying to get someone else to do what we think they should be doing.

likening this to supporting the Nazis is kind of a stretch here, don't you think?

~I