Dear people

When you agree to do something with us, please check with us before you change it. There may be a reason that we wanted you to come over for the glass of wine you invited yourself over at 8pm instead of 7pm. Now I have to hurry through dinner and the house won't be tidied. And there may be a reason we wanted to get dressed up and go out for a nice dinner with just you and not a casual pub food get together with you and your dysfunctional friends. I wonder what would happen if I started changing all the arrangements without asking if that works......hmmmmmmmm

I just can't figure out if it's that we suck so much that we want doesn't matter, or if other people just plain suck.

Hugs and butterflies, anyway, even to those who are frustrating,
~T~