I feel like crying reading your responses. Thank you for caring so much! Right before she showed I came up to read what you ladies had in mind for ideas. Well, I stuck with my plan of needing space and told her that it was a long and sucky week and was exhausted. I had all the meds, clothes, all belongings ready in front room. Told her I am tired and not feeling well when she noticed I was quiet and not my talkative self. Kids have school tomorrow and I needed to get rested. She had asked if I had got to ride this week...I did say " how could I?"
(if you ladies don't know already, I live abroad currently)
I said..." My husband is out of country in ickystan place (afganistan), you are off to another country to see your man in Jordan "(a U.S.Marine) my friend is a local here- " If something were to happen to me on the road who is going to take care of my kids, and your child?" I was the only one here for them." Her daughter is just beginning to speak/learn English so had some language barriers from time to time, I don't speak any greek. Just a couple of words.
So you know, the boyfriend is not bad at all, he was one of our Marines here at this post and he is good for her, but she tends to be impatient and wants the same out of him that she would give to him, sooner then the later. She tends to be on the needy side. Wants him to show his love more, not just say it, is what I hear.

I will prepare for next visit speech, do best when I have time to think.
Again, thanks for the help, knew I could count you all for good advice