Wahine, I think you and DH would make a great Dog mom & dad.

I highly encourage a rescue or adult dog. For one thing you are saving a life and you know what you're getting; shy dog, outgoing, energy level ... it's all there.

From there training and care is needed. I've read a saying "We get the dog we deserve" so it's a lot of work. But your dog's a learning machine and oh it's nice when training works. And it is fun on both ends of the leash.

But it is a huge lifestyle change. There are many things I don't do because of my mutt. Your dog wants to be with you, for most dogs that's always.

We work, have our friends, hobbies .... your dog has you. A tired dog means a happier less stressed dog so the morning swim or ride? It may need to be the morning loooooooong walk with the dog or run.

I "got custody" of the dog in a break up but then Mae had bonded with me and not with my ex who'd wanted the dog in the first place. But at most if I'd left the mutt with her, Mae would be a backyard dog. It's been hard but with me she's had a good life .

I've never regretted it.