Susan, you make perfectly valid points, and we all should have thought of this before we "went too far". Apparently, even smart, responsible, supportive women can get carried away.

Thank you for leaving the thread and providing a gentle reminder that we about our responsibilities here.

I think it isn't really relevent to know who did or did not complain, Susan is doing the right thing here.

Thank you so much for providing this forum!

Hugs and butterflies,
~T~