I've only given one BP and it was a night out on the town event. It could be done wherever you decide to have it. The batchelorette was given a "scavenger hunt" she had to complete before we let her go home. Part of the list was activities she had to complete (like riding a mechanical bull) and the rest was things she had to gather (which I was able to make into a scrap book). It kind-of gave the night purpose and we all had fun and got to talk to lots of people and there were no embarrassing memories of stripper related activities.