I'm very sorry to hear about your friend.

I'm not sure how sick she is -- is she bedridden for the timebeing? If so, sometimes just having a visitor can be a very good thing. And sometimes they most appreciate a visitor who doesn't say a lot. That way, they can sleep if they want, but know that someone's there.

Maybe you could bring some movies, books, or an mp3 player with her favorite music on it that would help to pass the time?

Does your friend have a family that's helping to take care of her? If so, sometimes they need a break, or they just need someone to listen.

Dinner/food is often appreciated, but if they've already been getting food from people, it can be stressful trying to fit the new food in the refrigerator. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you should probably ask first.

Maybe your friend would like to write notes or write out bills but can't do it right now because of physical difficulties. Never underestimate the value of a pair of good steady hands!

Just a few thoughts. Hope your friend is doing better.

-- Melissa