I can't imagine the path your friend has to travel down but I am sure having good friends that she can count on will make the burden that much lighter. My advice would be to sharpen up those listening skills - having someone that she can sound off to without worrying *what you will think* will be a tremendous help.

It is always difficult to accept help from friends knowing that you will never be able to repay in kind - fixing dinner, taking the kids to the library giving your friend a chance to spend some time alone will be very welcome. If you find a card that brings you a good belly laugh - send it off to your friend just to let her know you're thinking of her.

Does she like to bike? If not, maybe you can find a bike she can use for a few low key rides.

Having a family member and two good friends with MS I know how difficult the first few months after a diagnosis can be. I hope you'll keep us posted on how she is doing.