I had a stalker in high school. Then he graduated, and then I graduated, and I got married and had a kid. We ran into each other again, and he stalked me AGAIN for a while, even though he was married, too. I was never afraid of him, just annoyed.

During senior year of high school, I had a serious boyfriend--my "first"--(stalker had graduated already) for almost the whole year. We got our yearbooks and he wrote a full page of loveliness in mine. I read it once and then left it in his car or something. Before I got it back, we broke up. He ruined that page of my yearbook and wrote something nasty on it. I've never looked at the book since.

At our 10 year reunion, he wouldn't look at me. I guess he does have a conscience. He had nothing to fear--I was married (again) and had two kids and was living far away, and was so OVER him. But I am SO glad we broke up in high school!

Karen