What would you guys do.....

**rocknrollgirl** · 10-20-2007, 01:51 PM

I have an opportunity next month to attend a running clinic being given by two of the best in the off road triathlon business. Two of the pros that I met at Nationals are giving a clinic in a few weeks. It cost 80 dollars. Participants get a video taped analysis of their stride, drills and an 8 week training program. Because I would have to travel they have offered to put me up at their house.

The downside is, it is 5 hours away.

Would you guys go for it?

Before you ask, DH does not want to go and I do not have any running buddies...well except you guys.....

**teigyr** · 10-20-2007, 02:36 PM

I would do it. DH wouldn't even go just for the road trip?

I think it would be beneficial and the cost seems really good.

**LBTC** · 10-20-2007, 03:07 PM

RnRGirl,

My first reaction was - Of course I would go!!

But then I asked, why doesn't DH want to go? So I asked my DH about it....and his first reaction was the same, but when I told him your DH doesn't want to go, my DH had a good question: What city would you be going to?

So I can see that being a pivotal part of the reasoning in the go or don't go argument. Along with: if DH doesn't go, are you interested in going on your own? (me, I'm a fraidy cat, but I'm just waiting for the perfect opportunity to challenge my fears of doing things "on my own", and would look at this one has a possible one).

It sounds to me like you've proven you are dedicated to the sport, you are interested in learning how to be better at, and that the place to stay is really a benefit. In my view, the $80 price tag is low enough, too.

Is there something else you're supposed to be doing the same time this clinic s on? Do you have to miss work or would there be some other "hidden" cost? Is the drive miserable or dangerous to do on your own?

We all have our different reasons for making our decisions. I'm sure you will make the right one for you!

Hugs and butterflies,
~T~

**teigyr** · 10-20-2007, 03:15 PM

LBTC, you're right. I am quick to become enthusiastic. I also pretty much fly everywhere so I forget just how far away a 5 hour drive is. By yourself, unless you're the type to do those things, that'd be a long way.

I'm pretty independent but a 5 hour drive would be daunting. I don't suppose DH could be bribed to go along?

**rocknrollgirl** · 10-20-2007, 04:10 PM

The clinic is outside of Boston.
I will not have to take off from work.
It will be crappy drive.
DH does not want to go because he needs a break from my schedule. Everything we have done for the past 9 months has been around my season. Now that my season is over he just wants to go fishing. Completely understandable.

**snapdragen** · 10-20-2007, 05:03 PM

Is there any place nearby he could go play and do his thing, while you do yours?

**Running Mommy** · 10-20-2007, 06:21 PM

I would go. I would find him a good spot to go fishing for the weekend, and then I would go. It sounds like a fabulous opportunity! Esp. since that was to be your off season focus.
Tho I must admit that the drive would be a stinker! Esp. if the weather is bad.

**silver** · 10-20-2007, 06:44 PM

Ohhhh, this is interesting.

first off, I would go!

I drive 9 to 11 hours to visit my parents all the time.

Buuutttt....this brings up an interesting issue that Mr. and I have been discussing. It's a similar situation.

I want to become a LCI cycling instructor and need to take the prerequisite class. The closest It's offered in Little Rock, Arkansas. It's a 7 hour drive and Mr. says he doesn't feel that it's right for me to make the drive. I feel that this is unreasonable since I have no problem driving long distance. I've driven all over the southeast by myself or myself and small kids and have been fine. So I don't understand his reservation, but want to respect his feelings.

So I'm in a similar situation but with a different slant.

**Tri Girl** · 10-20-2007, 07:15 PM

I'd go for sure!
Then again, a 5 hour drive for us is really nothing. The nearest big city (Tulsa) is 2 hours away, Dallas is nearly 4, Amarillo is 5. For people like us, it's nothing to have to drive far. If you're not so used to it- that's a totally different thing. I've driven as much as 9 hours alone. This was before cell phones for emergencies (yes, I did have a quarter in case- doesn't do much good tho if you're in the middle of nowhere

).

Sounds like a fantastic opportunity- would be hard to pass up.

**rocknrollgirl** · 10-21-2007, 03:34 AM

Yep...I think I am going to go...and try not to be too hard on the DH for not wanting to go. The man took off from work and ent to Tahoe with me for Nationals. In my book, that is support. He just needs a break!

**Tuckervill** · 10-21-2007, 05:00 AM

Originally Posted by silver

Ohhhh, this is interesting.

first off, I would go!

I drive 9 to 11 hours to visit my parents all the time.

Buuutttt....this brings up an interesting issue that Mr. and I have been discussing. It's a similar situation.

I want to become a LCI cycling instructor and need to take the prerequisite class. The closest It's offered in Little Rock, Arkansas. It's a 7 hour drive and Mr. says he doesn't feel that it's right for me to make the drive. I feel that this is unreasonable since I have no problem driving long distance. I've driven all over the southeast by myself or myself and small kids and have been fine. So I don't understand his reservation, but want to respect his feelings.

So I'm in a similar situation but with a different slant.

What the heck!? Mr. Silver, 7 hours to Little Rock is nothing. (I lived in Little Rock while my hub was working for a company based out of Indy. I know the route well. But then, I took a trip from Arkansas to each coast this year via car with my young son.)

Little Rock is a WONDERFUL place now, with the River Trail and lots of outdoorsy places to go and is very scenic. Then there's the River Market District spawned by the Clinton Library. It's a little hidden gem on the Arkansas River.

Silver, if you do decide to go, let me help you pick your hotel, okay? There are good places to stay and not-so-good and the online sites do not distinguish them.

Karen

**Tuckervill** · 10-21-2007, 05:01 AM

Originally Posted by rocknrollgirl

Yep...I think I am going to go...and try not to be too hard on the DH for not wanting to go. The man took off from work and ent to Tahoe with me for Nationals. In my book, that is support. He just needs a break!

I forgot to answer the question. I'm glad you're going! We may never pass this way again, you know?

Karen

**Kimmyt** · 10-21-2007, 05:10 AM

Oh, I LOVE solo road trips! Have fun!

**rocknrollgirl** · 10-21-2007, 05:45 AM

Hey Kimmy...want to go to a running clinic????

**withm** · 10-21-2007, 06:36 AM

I drive from east coast - Delaware to northern Michigan once or twice a year - alone. Takes about 15 hours. You need good music to listen to cause radio along that trip (well anywhere anymore) is just awful. My last trip in Sept my car stereo died.... ended up with Ipod and 1 headphone in my ear. It was less than satisfactory. I say go for it - both of you.

Martha

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