Thanks everyone for their advice and well wishes.
We had a very successful weekend, with absolutely perfect weather.
The ashes ceremony was way at the end of Marconi Beach where no one was around- just beautiful with us all there, and big harbor seals watching us from way out in the waves, ready to serve as "escorts" for my mother.

DH and I did a quick little 11 miler from Wellfleet the first day. The second day we had to abort our group ride due to various family activities running late- but we all had a good time. On Sunday DH and I and the 3 girls (in their 20's) all went for an 18 mile ride from N.Eastham, partly along the railtrail but also along the beach roads as well. Went to Wellfleet and then back to N.Eastham. We had fun! DH and I had to go slow as the young women were not as agile on bikes as we. It was great fun.

I did get Rubel's bike map which helped. We ate one lunch at The Box Lunch which was good.
I had wonderful fresh whole boiled lobster two nights in a row....what a huge treat!!! One dinner at Mac's Shack (the dinner restaurant, not the market) and one at Duck Creek Tavern. Next time we will try The Wicked Oyster and The Black Duck- both of which we have heard good things about.