My situation is the opposite. My husband rides with a female friend of ours. Actually she was a customer of his and he knew her before I did. They both have Thursdays as their day off and I have weekends. As I still do I take my vacation days on Thursdays to ride with them but needless to say, vacation days only go so far. Anyway, the only thing I was jealous about was that I am in work and they are riding.

He would call me a couple of times through their ride to let me know he was thinking of me and tell me where they rode to. However, she has become my cycling buddy and very good friend, actually she is my best friend now and the person I ride my organized rides with. But when I ride on the weekends, I feel guilty because my husband isn't with us, but I am sure as time goes by this will all pan out so we can all ride together all the time.

~ JoAnn