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    Quote Originally Posted by zencentury View Post
    You're 33, you've been married 13 years. You married when you were 20, still a girl.
    You're discovering you're abilities and establishing some independence.
    Riding Buddy is only part of the issue here.
    The wise and wonderful zen has done it again. I completely agree (voice of experience).

    The problem is, if you ditch the riding buddy you are compromising your goals/abilities/fun on the bike. In time resentment will grow (though you might not realize it at first - it will be internal). However, if you DON'T ditch the riding buddy, you also may be compromising your relationship with your DH.

    Bat, I like the way your worked your cycling issues out. Maybe you could follow her plan, Mel?
    Last edited by IFjane; 06-25-2007 at 12:13 PM.
    "When I'm on my bike I forget about things like age. I just have fun." Kathy Sessler

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