I think Lisa said it better than I did.

If there's a problem, then address it. If it's riding insecurity, that is good incentive to get out there and practice. If it's jealousy or trust, then that needs to be broken down and discussed.

DH likes to ride with me but if he can't ride (and during the week, he can't) he'd rather have me be with someone because it's safer. He plays baseball and I don't. There are females that he plays with. Yeah, they are cute and they bond in a team comraderie kind of way but it's ok. I am always invited to attend games or post-game festivities. They know about me as my male friends know about DH.

I value my marriage very much and I would do anything to maintain harmony. We are also individuals with interests and friends and that makes us far better partners, I think.