Have you tried calling a few of your local shops to see if anyone has a saddle demo program? It seems like a much cheaper alternative to buying and selling new saddles.
The perfect saddle I've found....the WTB SST 2K. It's not soft, but gosh, WTB did something right with it. There is no channel, but the shape of the saddle puts zero pressure on the girly bits and it supports my sit bones nicely. Of course, we all have different bodies, so what works for me might not work for you, but I thought I would mention it because WTB doesn't make it anymore, so it's really cheap online. It could be a good one to try if your current doesn't work and there aren't any demo programs around you.
http://www.greenfishsports.com/index...ROD&ProdID=190
Although, you might find you like it and then, well, WTB doesn't make it anymore so you'll have to stock up or find a new one once it's time to replace
