Poor Cyclist

[margo49]

The first thing to remember is that whatever road or distance you ride on your bike has already been ridden by a woman on a Raleigh Sports with 3-speed Sturmey-Archer gearing in the 1930's. If she could do it, so can we. There is also a story here on the boards somewhere of a TE girl riding up a steep hill in Pennsylvania being overtaken by a traditionally-dressed Amish lass on a Dutch bike!
I agree that gloves and helmet are essential. Shorts you can wait till you are uncomfortable . I did all my youthful long-distance touring and messengering in regular Cut-offs. You do not say your age but my experience is that the Female Nether Regions are Never Quite The Same Again after the children, so if you are a mother you might need them straight away.
In our intimate relationships (of whatever combination of ages and genders), most of us started out with not very much "stuff" and gradually put together a Good Home; and even looking back remember how happy we were with so little.
Same with biking (another Intimate Relationship if ever there was one!!). You do need a bike, but it doesn't have to be the latest or fanciest. You will always love your first bike the most anyway, whatever you end up riding!

Stick around, nobody here ever puts anybody down because of their equipment, accessories or lack of them. The Women here have so much experience and knowledge and stories to share. We don't have time to engage in negative comparisons (in between biking, the rest of our lives and the TE forums!)