Would you like to join my pity party?

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

Call BF and tell him you are miserable, you miss him, and can you both just start over again and maybe talk later on about what happened? Ask him how he is before you tell him how you are.

[mountainchick]

I hope your week gets better and you work things out with BF.

Can you treat yourself to something (pedicure, chocolate, new cycling gear) to help brighten the week?

[LBTC]

{{{{{{{{{{{{Marcie}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Your week will get better.

As a pet parent, I know that my gratitude for what you did for the yorkie and his owner is beyond words. Terribly difficult for you, and awful for him, but the ripple of your kindness and knowledge has helped him in ways you may never know.

Strange as it sounds, your strong student made the error, that you overlooked, for a reason. I can't explain it, but you can't tell just what it will lead to for him, for you, for your school, etc. Many wild scenarios come to mind, which don't bear typing....just please trust the universe.

Can I explain why you got rained on wickedly? No. Am I grateful it wasn't a tornado you rode through? Absolutely!

BF will warm up. Lisa has good thoughts for you. Maybe this week is more about you taking care of you (with the help of your mates on TE), than whatever BF has to offer right now.

Life is a strange roll of the dice, but the numbers always add up to something.

Sending you butterflies full of joy, acceptance, peace and wonder.

and hugs, too

~T~

[makbike]

Thanks for the hugs guys!

I've tried calling BF, he is screening his calls. I've tried sending emails they go unanswered. I simply must wait for him to contact me and I'm not very good at waiting.

I did treat myself to an hour massage last night and the knots have already returned to my neck and shoulders.

I know things will get better just as I know everything happens for a reason. I'm just a bit blue and this too shall pass (probably when the PMS trip comes to an end and the cramps pass!)

Time to curl up with my cats so they can purr me to sleep (also lacking this week).

[lauraelmore1033]

cats are a great consolation, aren't they? What an awful week! Hope things get better for you pronto!

[mimitabby]

gee, ((((Makbike)))) I'm having a hard week too but at least DH is talking to me!
I hope you have someone you can talk to about it.

I have been where you were with the Yorkie, with me it was a little orange tabby kitten. I got there just as it died too.

I'm glad you have your cats. Aren't they grand sometimes?

[Mr. Bloom]

While we're "pulling for you" in cyber-land, please take note of the next five GOOD things that happen and post them here for us. That way, we'll know this brief spell has passes.

[uforgot]

Well, from someone who just gave Missouri's MAP tests, how ridiculous is it that your tests aren't clear enough for a good student? Seems like you should make a complaint about that. Sounds like a huge flaw to me. Actually, I have yet to see one of these tests that doesn't have a problem or two. You certainly sounded like you proctored it fine. I'd ask around, see if this isn't a problem elsewhere in the state.

As for the BF? You said "My boyfriend hurts my feelings and now won't talk to me He hurts YOU and somehow it's YOUR fault? I know it's one sentence, and I don't have the full story, but this scares me for you. I'd go talk to someone, friend, relative and get their slant on things. Go to the library, search the web, tons of stuff on relationships and you can learn so much about yourself. This seems like a huge red flag to me. If you like, PM me and I can steer you to some books and sites.

I'll be thinking of you and hope today is better.

signed,

been there, done that, both times.

[crazycanuck]

(((((((((((makbike))))))))

You're a wonderful lady I'm sure if it was my doggie, she would have appreciated your kind help as well

I'm not exactly sure what else to offer except I do hope your week improves. I'm sure it will

Take care

C

[makbike]

Uforgot - thanks for the words of encouragement. Let me clarify this statement:

You said "My boyfriend hurts my feelings and now won't talk to me

He does not hurt my feelings on a regular basis - he hurt my feelings on Sunday -I did not catch the typo in my post. I certainly did not mean to make him out as some bad, uncaring person for he is not. We (he and I) are both under a lot of pressure at the moment and what happened Sunday hit me hard. Life goes on, we will mend this fence I know. I know there is no perfect relationship out there, there are bumps in every relationship just as there are many smooth spots. We simply hit a little "hiccup" in the path. Things will be fine - Add to this a mild PMS trip and well little things become magnified. Again, I know things will get better. I'm still smiling just having a rough week.

Mr. S - I slept through the night and woke with a smile so there is my first good thing. Now it is off to school for yet another day of testing. I'm sure things will go better today.

Thanks again for your support guys I really do appreciate it. Help yourself to the refreshments and munchies (can't have a pity party without lots of good food and drinks).