Rude or just too sensitive

[Mr. Bloom]

Sometimes it is just hard to look outside of my little "box" to see the larger picture.

You share that tendency with 99.9% of the world (me included)...The proof that you WILL get through this is evident in the fact that you're aware of it and sensitive to it.

[singletrackmind]

Both.....for both of you. You were being too sensitive to his reply, he was being too sensitive to your mood. He was prolly disappointed too? As you well know, house hunting can make you nuts if you let it.

Don't know if it helps but we had 3 we liked and tried for but didn't get before finding this house. Way more perfect than the other three at an insanely low price on 3/4 of an acre. Been here almost 5 years now and in retrospect I am SOOOO glad we lost out on the others.

Best of luck on your search! Think as positive as you can, it's infectious. Maybe try blurting out random positive comments for practice. Aim them at everything, yourself (especially), your husband, the bike, people you don't know, everything.