I absolutely agree with yellow.

Silver and I keep a plaque hanging in our kitchen that says

"Love is a Decision"

I suspect hubby feels bad about the move, the move not going well, the return that sounds like is leaving you temporarily in a more difficult place than you started.

Every bad situation has something good in it...you just have to try to find it.

Years ago, I bought a small painting called "Dark Garden" by an artist with www.storypeople.com. It says:
I once had a garden filled with flowers that grew only on dark thoughts but they need constant attention & one day I decided I had better things to do.

Sometimes, this perspective is easier to embrace than others...but I try to hold on to this.