boy, ask Aunt Jean if she'd rather have a husband like my step father. When he retired he announced he was done working... and moved to a house with a 5x15 foot lawn, his previous exercise was mowing. He sat down and didn't get up again until he had to have his hip replaced. He lost all of his muscle tone his legs are like sticks, his vitality, his flexibility. All he does all day is sit and doze in his chair.

Tell Aunt Jean that they STILL spend money, they still don't help out around the house, but at least HER husband can take out the garbage for her or help her out of the car. My stepfather is completely useless!

( I don't mean to sound so harsh, but I remember who he was before he signed his own death warrant)