Wow Darcy! My sympathies for the loss, it probably helped that you went and gave your condolences though. As for riding, one day off of the bike doesn't hurt and may actually help a little. You will ride again the next day, so just get ready for that and use this day for something different, change it up a bit. As for aunt Jean, woo she needs to cool off a little. Maybe someone should suggest that she take a ride with her husband or a friend or someone and maybe she'll like to ride.
Hope all is well and have a great ride!