I think that people react the way they do because you are planning to do something that is well beyond what they can imagine doing themselves, and they are scared for you. Not jealousy, fear...

I started in the world of touring by doing supported tours. Everyone approved. Supported tours stopped making me happy, and I moved on to self-supported (and solo) touring. Before my first tour I faced a lot of disapproval from friends, co-workers, and family. Luckily I had a couple of good friends who supported me - even though my decision made them a little nervous. And I had the support of the folks at the bike shop where my frame was being built. That helped. I continued talking with my friends and family who didn't think I should head out on my own, but I didn't let them convince me not to go.

Believe in yourself, and don't let anyone steer you away from your dream.

--- Denise