Native Texan , married to a native Texan. He was raised by his mother after his parents divorced in a home with a Texas Hill Country bred stepfather. His stepdad does a lot of things for them. I have seen my stepfather-in-law wash dishes, repairing things, making dinner, etc... I think my mother-in-law trained him though. It isn't where you are born, it is how you were raised. My father-in-law pretty much only tends to the yard and the grill, but my husband didn't grow up in his house.

We divide the housework. Honestly, my DH does more than his fair share when his job requires 5-10 more than mine a week. I do the bills and slack on almost everything else. I do all the cooking, unless it involves the grill. The onyl thing DH hasn't done in the 5 years we have lived together is clean a toilet (I do that).

My uncle is getting us a knew kitchen sink and faucet and was asking me what I wanted. I told him "I don't know, C does most of the dished. We should ask him!"