No, I didn't spit on him. I did not spend our life savings.. He won't cry. But I am wrong.
Frankly I wish he would talk. He never says anything about his sister or brother. He used to talk about "when we were kids" all the time. I don't think I've heard him say his sisters name since, she was killed. I know he feels he should have done something. He keeps sending me job listings from his hometown, he wants to move back I assume.
I did buy him a bike first actually.. But it just hangs on the wall. I know he needs help, but he wouldn't ever talk to anyone, he is macho that way. I've tried to have brothers from the church call him. But he is polite and turns back there offers to go out to dinner and such. So I don't know what to do, but leave him alone.. Sorry for drifting..