>>Long term we do have many issues.. His brother was killed by a DD in Aug, while on his motorcycle after his shift as a prison guard. And his sister was brutally murdered in Jul. So my happy go lucky guy. Is overweight and mean since.. But we will be alright, I will wait on him.<<

Frankly, I think you just spat on him.

He's mean!? Formerly happy-go-lucky? He's sick. Get him some help. Show him some respect. Take the bike back.

Karen