Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Silver View Post
I'm glad that this approach seems to have worked for you. However, I think if I took this approach with Silver or vice versa, then fireworks may have resulted. Don't misunderstand...I like the list idea, but comparing you vs. him...well, I'm not sure that would work with everyone.

Personally, I'd suggest simply listing the tasks and making it clear that you need his help in sharing the burden equally.

Just my humble opinion...

Most of that was tongue in cheek actually Mr. S. But honestly, in my first marriage, at one point I really did sit down and make a list of everything I did because he just didn't get it. I think for many men, it's the way they're brought up. It's tough for them to see another point of view, that women weren't put on this earth to serve them.