I unfortunately do about 90% of the work....DH does the bills and sometimes mows. We both work full time, my job pays more and has longer hours. I think a lot of it has to do with which part of the county your significant other grew up. My husband is from the hill country of Texas, and many men from that area seem to expect these "typical" male/women roles. He does help with the housework if I ask, but only with lots of complaining and resentment. In the past I've asked for more help, but the "help" only lasts for a few weeks.

I do have one thing that might help....I've told him he has to help out more before we have any kids. No help = no kids.