I like BikeJournal, too. It's kinda like a co-ed TE.
I spend about 1/5 my "forum time" over on BikeJournal. Mostly lurking. (I'm a big fan of Pansy Palmetto)
The moderators there are pretty quick to act, but they're also pretty quick here on TE.
I'm sorry you had a bad experience on that "other" forum, EastHill.
yeah, that joke would be ok told to me by a friend in private, but posted on a public forum it is pretty bad manners. And to attack you is worse manners.
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