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    Quote Originally Posted by Bluetree View Post
    I wonder about priorities, too. My cousin (who is dead broke) is getting married soon and she was given a choice by her father: the $100k wedding she asked for... or the down payment on a house. She chose the wedding.

    Then again, my family thinks my priorities are out of whack for riding my bike at 5am in 30° temps.
    Did you really mean a wedding that costs 100,000 dollars???
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    Quote Originally Posted by mimitabby View Post
    Did you really mean a wedding that costs 100,000 dollars???
    Yup. Not too unusual around here, young people can be quite spoilt. My brother's wedding cost $150k (dress alone was $20k), but at least her physician-parents could easily afford it. My uncle, on the other hand, can not, which makes me less inclined to want to go to my cousin's wedding.

    Everyone thought my bro's wedding was beautiful. Personally, other than the ceremony, I thought it was ostentatious, wasteful and a bit crass. I mean, what's the point in carpeting an entire ballroom in fresh rose petals? They stuck onto your high heels fer crissakes. People... get a grip!

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    I can't imagine having that big a wedding! DH and I had a 20 person very informal wedding to make my parents happy (not that they paid for it, but they wanted the wedding). Didn't go into too much debt, but went through the "wedding day" stuff for the wrong reasons. Given our choice, we would have eloped.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CA_in_NC View Post
    I can't imagine having that big a wedding! DH and I had a 20 person very informal wedding to make my parents happy (not that they paid for it, but they wanted the wedding). Didn't go into too much debt, but went through the "wedding day" stuff for the wrong reasons. Given our choice, we would have eloped.
    I hear you CA. We wanted to elope and got talked out of it. If we had our time again, it would be elope elope elope. Our wedding cost less than $1k all up including my wedding dress ($250). We got married at lunchtime on a wednesday cos we thought it would be just us That way we got the flowers in the church for free from the previous saturday's weddings, and virtually no charge on the church. Admittedly, Wed lunchtime is not a "normal" wedding, but I really cant understand huge weddings

    My jaw just dropped when i read $100K... then someone said $150K... are they completely nuts?????? I dont mean to offend anyone, but that's a lot of money!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bluetree View Post
    Yup. Not too unusual around here, young people can be quite spoilt. My brother's wedding cost $150k (dress alone was $20k), but at least her physician-parents could easily afford it. My uncle, on the other hand, can not, which makes me less inclined to want to go to my cousin's wedding.

    Everyone thought my bro's wedding was beautiful. Personally, other than the ceremony, I thought it was ostentatious, wasteful and a bit crass. I mean, what's the point in carpeting an entire ballroom in fresh rose petals? They stuck onto your high heels fer crissakes. People... get a grip!
    Oh, Blue, that much $$ for a few hour of one day?? sounds like people
    do need to get a grip. think of all the bikes... You could buy bikes for hundreds of kids with that money. and helmets too!
    or... nice bikes for all the bridesmaids and groomsmen! and they'd still have money left over for a decent wedding, with food and favors and flowers
    Mimi Team TE BIANCHISTA
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