I think you are right it is more of a squish problem. I think I am too far forward in my seat. I like the idea of sitting on a concrete curb...I might look funny but I am going to try that to find the right "sit" position. We have adjusted my tilt but I think to get the right sit I need a different stem on my handlebars...I think I reach and it causes me to be too forward. So just an idea for some of you to look at the stem. I too have the problem of a good bike shop with a professional fitter is 40 miles away. So I am going to head there on the next day off and see what I can find. Thanks for all the good info!