You CAN do it. Just like anything else practice, practice, practice. Glad to hear you have a teacher/coach
I have swam since I was 5 years old, advanced to instructing and lifeguarding then 5 seasons ago our HS girls swim coach started offering adult workouts. After 30 years I had to totally learn how to swim again. (well almost totally - i could still float, albeit gasping for air)
for 3 months I did nothing but laps and laps of practice drills without ever really doing the full stroke. When I finally did put it together I was WAAYYY faster and more efficient than ever.
The not so fun drill and technique laps are really worth it.
It's about the journey and being in the moment, not about the destination