Offthegrid - I was a product of a very bad divorce and swore I would never marry. I was not looking when it hit me. I married at 31. Not old, but not at an age when people *assumed* I should already be married.

Also, we both decided we did not want kids and made it so we would not have any. We have no regrets. And if we wake up in our 40's and just KNOW that we want a kid, we both agree we will adopt. There are so many unwanted kids out there. And it would be a gift to all concerned if that is an avenue we take.

You will find someone. It may not be tomorrow but it will happen in its own time. And until then, just enjoy not having to answer to anyone for anything. (I think that's the one thing I miss about being single).