I feel the same way. Even though my husband and I have different hobbies, his, computers and sailboating and mine, music and biking. I would never think about asking him to quit and he doesn't ask me to quit. It is so neat when he comes home and has won a race or had a good time teaching about sailboating. And biking gives me the alone time I need sometimes to get rid of stress from the job. Besides it gives our daughters a good look at a partnership that can be diverse and still be strong-23 years married.

I hope you can find a solution.

Donna