Personally, I don't think it's really fair to generalize that guys have problems with women passing them. The guys I know on bikes are real happy to ride together with females and show their admiration and easy camaraderie (my DH included). And as we know, neither gender can corner the market on big egos and inferiority complexes.

But yes, when any person (male or female) acts superior on their bike, no harm in giving them something to think about.