I really appreciate, and need, the reminders to watch my back. I am such a Sally Smalltown that I forget the Big Bad Wolf can be just a mouse click away.

I sent him a link to the one photo of me that exists on the web and he emailed back, so that's a good sign . Gack, now I'm nervous. I need to firm up plans to meet him (on bikes). All I can do is be myself, right ? (That's a rhetorical question .)