Sounds like a plan is emerging...

Fish - I'll PM you about flight specifics.

SK - I can call you when I've got Fish and her bags safely ensconced in my car and we can give you (and anyone else who want to eat lunch) an ETA for the FB.

There are several good options for lunch there -
Lulu Petite (my personal fave)
Mijita - Tracy Des Jardine's Mexican taqueria
Taylor's burgers (of St. Helena fame)
Slanted Door (Vietnamese) has a take out place,
and more!
Oh - also oysters! caviar tasting!