I just did a side by side comparison of the two, since I bought the "Her" butter last week while we were touring. They both seem to have the same consistency to me, not very thick and easy to wash off your hands. There is a slightly more pleasant fragrance to the Her butter, because of the lavender and tea tree oils, but it wasn't strong at all. I like that this one has the tea tree oil, although I do prefer the Blue Steel, but that has quite a strong odor of tea tree and not everyone cares for that. Riding, it seemed to be pretty much the same as the regular chamois butter.
"Don't go too fast, but I go pretty far"