Hi Gals,

Wow, at 51, I really feel a lot of changes going on. The cramping during my periods is horrific, and now I bleed between cycles. Hard to sleep, anxiety, and now even separation anxiety with my partner visiting her family for who weeks. Both of us seem to be concurrently going through these changes, making our eight year relationship very challenging, and on the brink of breaking up.

Strangely enough, I had my hormones tested and the only one that is abnormal is my testosterone. Very low. So how can I attribute these mood changes to menopause when my hormones are normal? I think I am losing my freakin' mind.

Have any of you had difficulties during menopause with your relationships? I would love to hear your stories and your solutions.