My bike has a big comfortable saddle and my behind is also large
The body position is fairly upright on the Specialized Crossroads Elite in the avatar. When I'm riding I become aware of sitting more on the butt flesh behind the sit bones than the sit bones themselves and wonder if this is correct. I can sort of rock forward a little to feel the pressure on the bones but don't maintain this position without staying aware.

What is the best way to sit the saddle on such a bike?