Quote Originally Posted by indysteel View Post
In case it wasn't clear from my snark, we're not going to the party. We've now sent two gifts to this couple for the child (baby shower and post-birth); neither one of which was ever acknowledged, not even in passing. So, the little princess will not receive anything further from us.
Your gifts should have been acknowledged, but beyond that, I wouldn't judge.

If you don't know these people in person, you can't really determine anything about them. I certainly wouldn't make a judgement based on what they've put on Facebook. What is posted on Facebook could be the opposite of what is going on in reality. It is common for what is reported about family life to be different from the truth.

I'm not sure about the trend question -- does it matter? People have parties for all kinds of silly reasons. I would make no assumptions based on that. For example, many people have "Christmas tree trimming parties," which I find puzzling and mildly repulsive. A party for a child makes more sense than a party for a dead tree.

If you have concerns about how these people are raising their child I would strongly suggest that you make direct, in-person observations.

From what I can tell, the minute a woman gives birth the world sets about judging her -- one reason I decided not to have children.