I can absolutely relate. The way I eat is considered odd, even extreme, by most people I interact with. It's awkward at times. I don't mind answering questions (the way I eat has completely changed my life...I used to be 200lbs overweight and was dealt with a host of autoimmune issues which are now gone) but it gets weird when someone brings it up then gets defensive when I answer their questions. I have to always choose my words very carefully to be clear that by responding to questions about how I eat I am not implying anyone else should do the same.

I am gluten-free (probably celiac with the autoimmune tie-ins but it's unconfirmed) and sugar-free...nearly 100% grain-free. I lean toward paleo eating but have recently reintroduced legumes in moderation as well-sourced meat is outside my budget these days. I guess you could say I'm either paleo or nearly-vegan depending on my grocery budget.

Holidays are weird for me because I don't have that desire to indulge anymore. It's more about health than taste for me now...and my tastes have changed and I truly enjoy my vegetable-based meals. It creates a weird dynamic when one person is snacking on veggies and hummus while everyone else is having what they call a "cheat" day. I'm already dreading Thanksgiving... And, yes, it's my family that leaves me feeling judged/mocked. My friends all respect my choices even if they find them a little odd.