Withm- OMG that situation sounds way worse than mine- I'm so sorry- how awful!
When my other neighbors' son took up drumming, we had to suffer through his rock drumming drifting over the neighborhood (whenever he'd forget to close the windows like they agreed to)- but we knew in 3 yrs he'd be GONE, off to college. And sure enough, he's now gone.
Sometimes you just have to pin your hopes on the fact that things do usually change over time...

X- that's too bad about your job. But good thing you didn't give notice at your current job!