Same here. I'm like both PamNY and Crankin (but unlike Crankin, I am no girlygirl --- I love that she led the boys around when she was a kid!!!). I'm an introvert, enjoy my own company, and would rather spend what free time I have w/my husband. I have a couple of female close friends at work, but we don't socialize outside of the office. Maybe when I retire, I'll expand my social horizons, but for now, I'm more than content.
I am anti-Drama. I'm not in competition with anyone but myself in that I'm trying to be a kinder, more tolerant person. I simply don't want others' drama/negativity in my life, and I haven't the patience for pettiness (probably because I've been burned by "good" friends in the past?). Regardless, I've found that social gatherings of more than two females inevitably evolves in snarkiness.




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