Neglect is still pretty bad. I'm so sorry you are haveing a hard time, the professions are so hard to balance your life. Is there a Doctor in the house? Are there ways to find a balance? And does he see it as an issue? That's so important that he buys into working on it I think...not that I know anything about relationships ;-)

And what Grog sed. I have to believe it's possible to find true, respectful, caring companionship, at any age, or re-kindle it..I better. :::skips off to make a note to self, might not want to date a doctor::::

What made you fall in love with him in the foist place? That still there?