Tuck, I've been thinking about what you've stated and I've been stewing over this as well. What you have suggested is an interesting approach and could potentially diffuse the situation under the right circumstances.
From the description of the man, my initial thought is this guy's brain may be affected by drug abuse. He doesn't seem to be able to rationalize or process what he deems as a potentially threatening encounter with his neighbors. Instead, he escalates quickly and poses as a threat to not only himself but others as well.
If he is not a victim of substance abuse than he may be chronically mentally ill. Again, if he is experiencing an episode of delusional thoughts he will have difficulty controlling his reactions when encountering individuals--especially if he's paranoid. There is no reasoning with someone when they are escalating--there is only minimizing the situation by 1) not triggering it or 2) reducing it through medical intervention and therapy.
Staceysue, I understand your frustration with having to alter your route but if I were in your shoes I would avoid a chance encounter with this individual. I hope your new routine can offer you peace of mind.Stay safe, enjoy the fresh air, and bask in the beauty of fall.





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