docfrau and mtbdarby... OMG! I'm sooooo with you on this! (I'm late here to chime in but caught the dreaded flu bug that was going around so have been outta commission briefly)

I have yet to actually get anyone to schedule a cycling date... as soon as I mention that I have ridden a century ( I don't even tell them 6 so far this year) they get all nervous. I really don't CARE if someone is at the same level, would just like them to be willing to at least TRY it.

Then we start talking and they ask my other interests... well let's see I love to couples dance and did so competetively for a few years, OH and have I mentioned I own my own home and have a great career?

my friends are convinced that I intimidate the **&^%* outta men... I'm not sure that's what it is... but I seem to be the "one date wonder"... I cannot get a second date to save my soul. Oh wait, I take that back... I had a second date with one guy I liked but the 3rd date fell thru when he found out his ex-wife was pregnant...

I have to believe there is SOMEONE out there who will like me as I am... but dangit... WHERE is the knucklehead???

OK, vent over... thanks... great post... I feel better now too! Hmmm... off to check out the cycling singles website