That's a good question - I've been giving it a lot of thought lately. In late October, I was forced to give up driving for six months (as required by Kansas State Law) after having a couple of seizures. It's been quite a change in lifestyle. I work full-time and live in a city with minimal bus service, etc., and if it weren't for my husband and college-age son at home, I don't know what I'd do.

Sounds like your father is using some good judgment in paying attention to his reflexes and reactions and his own comfort zone. Awhile back, my Grandpa voluntarily gave up his driver's license after being involved in a minor accident. He didn't feel that his reactions were good enough for driving. I think I'd give up driving if I didn't feel safe, or if my doctor told me I weren't safe. If my eyesight were a factor, I'd get my eyes checked more often - required or not. I value my independence, but not if I were putting myself and everyone around me at too much risk.

Right now, I'm on meds and haven't had any seizures since starting the meds. Although I'd love to have my independence back, the consequences of having a seizure while driving are really scary. I think that's the bottom line for me both now and when I'm older - if I can't physically and mentally handle it, I'll give it up. I don't know what I'd do if I were single now, but there are a lot of good retirement villages around here with some good transportation options.

Deb