This topic seems to be quite timely for a bunch of us. I can't swear I won't change my mind, but right now I'm in the no-kid mentality.

Quote Originally Posted by Biciclista View Post
There's another reason to have kids. WHo's going to take care of you when you're old?!
I have to respectfully disagree with this. I think it's the exact wrong reason to have a child. Regardless of whether I choose to have children or not, I'll be doing as much as I can to plan for my retirement. I've become increasingly frustrated watching my friends who are struggling to care for their adult parents. While I feel for those who have not had the means to save during their lives, many have simply lived it up - driving expensive cars, taking lavish vacations, etc. Now, they expect their kids to take care of them.

I'm really sorry if I sound harsh - I don't mean to. It's just hitting close to home (and threatening my DH's relationship with his brother).

CA